Postpartum depression (PPD) is more than just the “baby blues”—it’s a real, serious, and deeply personal struggle that affects 1 in 7 new mothers. That means if you’re feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unlike yourself after having a baby, you are far from alone. Yet, so many moms suffer in silence, unsure of what they’re experiencing or feeling ashamed to admit they’re struggling. Mama, let me say this loud and clear: There is nothing to be ashamed of. Postpartum depression is not a reflection of your love for your baby, your strength, or your ability to be an amazing mother. It’s a medical condition that so many of us go through—and there is help.
My Story: The Unexpected Weight of Postpartum
I knew postpartum would be a transition, but I didn’t expect it to shake me to my core. My body felt foreign—my belly was soft where it used to be firm, my hormones were all over the place, and my hair was falling out in clumps. And let’s talk about the sweaty shins. Like, what?! No one warned me about that.
Beyond the physical changes, my emotions were a rollercoaster. Some days, I felt like I was floating through a fog, disconnected from myself and even from the tiny human I had just brought into the world. The exhaustion was suffocating, the anxiety was relentless, and I didn’t recognize the person staring back at me in the mirror. And even though I had a beautiful baby in my arms, I felt so alone.
You Are Not Alone—And You Will Get Through This
If you’re reading this and nodding along, please know this: you are not broken, and you are not failing. PPD is temporary, and there is a light at the end of the tunnel—even if you can’t see it just yet. Getting help isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a step toward healing. Here are some resources that can support you:
· Postpartum Support International (PSI) – Offers a helpline, local support groups, and virtual meetings. www.postpartum.net
· National Maternal Mental Health Hotline – Call or text 1-833-9-HELP4MOMS for free, confidential support.
· Therapy and Counseling – A professional can help you navigate the emotional challenges of postpartum. Websites like BetterHelp or Talkspace offer virtual therapy options.
· Local Mom Groups – Finding a community of moms who understand what you're going through can be life-changing. Check out Facebook groups or local meetup organizations.
Le Lolo Is Here to Lift You Up
I remember looking at the products I was using—things meant to help me heal and support me in this new chapter—and instead of feeling comforted, they made me feel worse. The drab, clinical designs made me feel sick, weak, and incapable. I had just brought life into the world, yet everything I was using told me I was broken. I needed something that gave me hope, something that made me feel good, something that brought me joy.
That’s when Le Lolo was born—in the depths of postpartum, in the midst of yearning for something, anything, to help me feel like myself again. I realized that the products I had to buy for myself were hideous, and they made me feel terrible about my body and my experience. I wanted to feel proud of what I had just done, but how could I when everything I put on made me feel like I was just trying to survive? In that moment, I knew I could do better. I knew we as moms deserved better.
We are superhumans who grow life within us, yet the products we use don’t reflect our power. That’s why I created beautiful postpartum accessories—not just to function, but to remind every new mama of her strength, beauty, and worth.
At Le Lolo, we believe that every mom deserves to feel beautiful, strong, and supported—especially in the messy, emotional whirlwind of postpartum. Our beautiful postpartum accessories aren’t just functional; they’re designed to be a little reminder that you matter, too. On the days when you’re feeling down, when your body doesn’t feel like your own, when the exhaustion feels endless—know that you are not alone. We see you, we believe in you, and we are cheering you on.
Postpartum depression is hard, but it will pass. You are stronger than you feel right now, and there is help, hope, and healing ahead. One day, the fog will lift, and you’ll realize that you made it through. Until then, take it one day at a time—and know that we’re here for you, every step of the way.
Sending you love and light, Mama. You’ve got this. ❤️